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My Personal Coping Mechanisms for Life to Keep My Head in a Postive Space

My smile and genuine zest for life are representative of how I feel almost all of the time, but I was not always this way.  After I transitioned to using a wheelchair more often than not (about two years ago), I was sad and frustrated just about every day.  It was hard to get used to the changes I was facing as a result of my physical decline in my lower legs (and then some).  However, I knew I had to tackle the feelings of sadness and frustration to get where I wanted to be mentally, and I DID!!! I am writing this entry to share what has helped me cope with life's difficulties on my own.   To be completely transparent, I am not depressed or suicidal, but I expressed for years through tears I did not want to live this way.  It's freaking HARD to have a disability.  I did not understand how hard until I was faced with one.  The irony of being at the level of disability I am at is I have a lot of company instead of being alone as I had been for so m...